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【美文欣赏】人生应该早明白的三个道理

[Aesthetic appreciation] Three reasons why life should be understood early
 
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First, only tired, can only be idle.
 
A young colleague complained to me that I felt tired as long as I thought about things that I couldn’t do every day and I couldn’t finish my work.
 
Everyone wants to be relaxed, but the reality is that there is no work in this world. If you are blind and comfortable, it will only be counterproductive. And if we can accept the status quo and treat busyness as a normal life, we will find that we are happy and happy.
 
Many times, what really determines our mood is not the tired body, but the negative mentality. The more afraid of tired people, the more tired they live. Because they are unwilling to make efforts, they will not be able to change their status quo. They will look at them and feel that they are all people and things that are difficult for themselves.
 
It is necessary to admit that in the face of the pressure of life and the challenges of work, it is inevitable that anyone will be unable to do so. But positive people will choose to face the difficulties and face a variety of tests with a brave heart.
 
All the laziness stolen today will become a difficult future. Instead of being afraid of being tired and tired, it is better to learn to enjoy the harvest and progress in the busy.
 
What is really easy? After you are busy and tired, you have the ability to let yourself live a comfortable life; you know, you have done everything you can, even if you fail.
 
As there is a saying: When you know why you live, you can endure any kind of life. Going all out for what you want, although this process is very tired, it is the price that must be paid when you arrive in a leisurely environment. Not afraid of being tired, will not be tired of life.
 
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The second is that only suffering, knowing sweet.
 
Someone asked online, why do young people have to suffer? One of the answers to the praise is: Because fate will give us setbacks before giving us gifts.
 
Deeply thought.
 
In fact, whether we are willing or not, there are some hardships in life that have to be eaten, such as the pain of learning and the suffering of self-discipline. Therefore, there will be such a feeling: everything is bitter before it matures.
 
The taste of suffering is not good, but only after hardship, we will become stronger and more persevering, and we will be able to cherish the hard-won sweetness. And if you are not willing to eat hard when you are twenty, you will have to suffer from life when you are forty.
 
One day, you will understand that the most terrible thing in life is never to suffer, but that you have chosen comfort in the age of hardship. In the end, I have to pay a heavy price for the time that was once ruined.
 
As the times have developed to this day, most of us do not have to experience material poverty. In essence, suffering does not mean “satisfying the bad,” but we must understand the setbacks and be self-disciplined and brave in achieving our goals. .
 
If you have suffered hard, you can enjoy the blessing. This is the fairness of life.
 
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The third is that only after passing, Fang Ming.
 
I have seen such a story: a young man is in love, very sad, sitting at the river and crying. The fisherman saw it and went to comfort. The young people refused at first, saying that the fishermen could not understand their own suffering.
 
After listening to this, the fisherman was quiet for a long time, and then said to the young man: In fact, more than ten years ago, I also sat like this, sitting on the river and crying for the lost loved one. At that time I thought that the next life would only be gray. However, I am doing very well now. The happiness that I thought I could never get again is now available. Because since then, I have learned to cherish.
 
Over the years, this story has been printed in my mind. When I feel sorry for making mistakes, I remind myself that life has no way to go.
 
When people live forever, they want to take less detours, make fewer mistakes, and experience less pain. As everyone knows, these are the only way to growth.
 
All experiences, good or bad, are part of life and have their own meaning. After experiencing the injury, I know what kind of truth is needed. After I have experienced failure, I understand that I should take my own choices. After I have experienced my confusion, I can see what my heart really is.
 
I really like this lyric: "The years are a trip that has no return. The good and the bad are the scenery." Life is like a reverse travel, you and I are pedestrians. The roads that have passed, the tears that have fallen, and the baptisms that have passed through are actually to enrich our lives and bring us experience and wisdom.
 
If you don't read the world, how can you understand the world? The best attitude towards life is not to sigh for yesterday’s death, nor to worry about the unknown of tomorrow, to take the road ahead, and to be clear in front.
 
【美文欣赏】人生应该早明白的三个道理
 
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一是,唯累过,方得闲。
 
有位年轻的同事曾向我诉苦,说只要一想到每天有做不完的事、忙不完的工作,就觉得好累。
 
人都希望轻松,但现实却是,这世上并不存在一劳永逸的工作。如果一味贪图舒适,只会适得其反。而如果我们能接受现状,把忙碌当成一种人生常态来看待,就会发现,累中自有喜和乐。
 
很多时候,真正决定我们心情的,并不是劳累的身体,而是消极的心态。越怕累的人,活得越累。因为不愿意付出努力,也就无法具备改变现状的能力,放眼望去,感觉处处都是为难自己的人和事。
 
要承认,面对生活的压力和工作的挑战,谁都难免会有力不从心的时候。但积极的人会选择迎难而上,用一颗勇敢的心去面对种种考验。
 
所有今天偷过的懒,都会成为未来的难。与其总是怕忙怕累,不如学会享受忙碌中的点滴收获和进步。
 
什么才是真正的轻松?是你在忙过累过之后,有能力让自己过上心安自在的生活;是你知道,你已尽己所能,哪怕失败也无愧。
 
正如有句话所说:当你知道自己为什么而活,就可以忍受任何一种生活。为自己想要的而全力以赴,这个过程虽然很累,却是抵达人生闲适之境所必须付出的代价。不怕累,才会不为生活所累。
 
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二是,唯苦过,方知甜。
 
网上有人提问,年轻人为什么要吃苦?得到高赞的一个回答是:因为命运在送给我们礼物之前,也会让我们遭受挫折。
 
深以为然。
 
事实上,不管我们愿不愿意,人生中有些苦都是不得不吃的,比如学习的苦、自律的苦。所以才会有这样一句感慨:凡事在成熟之前,都是有苦味的。
 
吃苦的滋味不好受,但只有经过吃苦,我们才会变得更坚强,更有毅力,也才更能珍惜来之不易的甜。而假如二十岁时你不愿意吃奋斗的苦,那四十岁时就要吃生活的苦。
 
终有一天,你会明白:人生最可怕的,从来就不是吃苦,而是你在该吃苦的年龄选择了安逸,得过且过。到头来,却不得不为曾经所荒废的时光付出沉重的代价。
 
时代发展到今天,我们大部分人已无需经历物质上的贫苦,吃苦本质上也并不意味着“舍好求坏”,而是要懂得直面挫折,能够为达成心中的目标而自律自持、勇往直前。
 
吃得了苦,方能享得了福,这是生活的公平之处。
 
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三是,唯走过,方明了。
 
看过这样一个故事:一个年轻人失恋了,很伤心,坐在河边哭泣。渔夫看见了,上前安慰。年轻人一开始很拒绝,说渔夫根本无法体会自己的痛苦。
 
渔夫听完这话,沉寂良久,然后对年轻人说:其实十多年前,我也像你一样,坐在这条河边为失去心爱的恋人而哭泣。那时我以为,接下来的人生只会一片灰暗。但是,现在的我过得很好,曾经我以为再也得不到的幸福,现在都得到了。因为自那之后,我学会了珍惜。
 
多年来,这个故事一直印在我的脑海中,当我每次因犯错而感到懊悔时都以此提醒自己:人生没有白走的路。
 
人活一世,都想少走一些弯路,少犯一些错误,少经历一些痛苦。殊不知,这些都是通往成长的必经之路。
 
所有的经历,无论好坏,都是人生的一部分,自有它的意义。经历过伤害,才知道需要什么样的真情;经历过失败,才懂得应该担负起自己的选择;经历过迷茫,才能看清内心真正之所向。
 
很喜欢这句歌词:“岁月是一场有去无回的旅行,好的坏的都是风景。”人生如逆旅,你我皆行人。那些走过的路、掉过的泪、经历过的岁月洗礼,其实都是为了丰富我们的人生,带给我们体验和智慧。
 
不阅世间百态,怎懂沧桑世故。最好的人生态度,是不为昨天的逝去而叹息,也不为明天的未知而忧愁,把当下的路走好,前方自会豁然开朗。

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