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爱一个人就想占有和控制Ta的5大星座

  爱一个人就想占有和控制Ta的5大星座?
 
  天秤座
 
  天秤座的人有一种维持平衡的天性,在感情里如果他开始缺乏安全感,这种维持平衡就会变成控制,他会想要了解你的思想,藉由认同你支持你来掌握你,他会尽可能地付出,观察你各种需要的细节,然后把每个可以付出的机会都填满,会让人感到非常有压力,因为他们就是要防守其他人入侵的可能,喜欢掌控整个局面不管是你的心或是你的生活,这样他们才会有安全感。
 
  另外他们同时很懂得你内心脆弱的部分,假设你是个在意他外头人缘极佳、桃花很多的人,会因为这点而比较讨好他、比较在乎他需求的话,若天秤在跟你相处上有感到不平衡时,他就会故意出门跟好友聚会,一方面是为了纾解自己的压力,一方面是刻意控制让你回到比较爱他的那个样子,可以说是谈起恋爱来虽然轻鬆如风,但实际上执行了很多控制呢。
 
  双鱼座
 
  讲到双鱼座大部分的人印象就是他们谈恋爱很甜蜜也很黏人,不管是温柔型的双鱼,还是霸气型的双鱼,他们在恋爱里面就是看起来很无害。很奉献,像毛絮沾黏把一样,每天都要黏在恋人身上来回刷个好几遍,虽然刷出来的缺点可以选择视而不见,但每天对你黏黏刷刷就是要确认这份爱情没有杂质而你还在他的掌控之中。
 
  但如果交往久了,就会去质问你怎么每天缺点这么多,是不是不爱他所以你都没有改进。常常让恋人觉得是很爱挑毛病,而柔情其实就是他让你乖乖就范的手段之一,因为恋人的过去、现在、未来,他们全部想参与,双鱼也会希望恋人能够接受他们的全部,那种生命交织在一起的感觉才会让他们有真爱感。但对于爱自由的人来说,这样的相处充满控制,让人有一种被架住的窒息感。
 
  金牛座
 
  金牛座的人一旦认定了交往对象,就会想要掌控这段关系,因为他们会思考到如果往后的人生都要与你一起,那么我必须要有全盘的了解才行。所以在交往之前他们也会先观察对方是否能够接受自己没安全感的这一面,然后渐渐的要求对方提供更多的资讯,当恋人表达自己不喜欢被管的时候,金牛座的牛脾气就会展现出来,如果他们怀疑你,而你又不能解释到让他们能理解的点上,他们就会在这件事情上钻牛角尖,非常难缠。
 
  这时候恋人能不能体贴他们只是要安全感就非常重要,如果遇到脾气很硬的恋人,金牛座会痛苦很久,自责是自己的问题,但同时更加不能控制自己,在沟通上或行动上都会咄咄逼人的要对方提出更多解释。其实很多时候金牛座要的只是安抚,因为害怕失去,所以紧抓不放,最辛苦的还是金牛座自己。
 
  摩羯座
 
  摩羯座的人谈恋爱除了霸道之外,他们会把控制包装得很隐微,他们喜欢用当教授的方式替对方下指导棋,因为用大道理来规范对方,会让他们觉得比较心安理得,而且他们也会催眠自己,这样是替对方着想,要求对方要在人生面向上积极进取,因为他们就是靠着纪律跟意志力成功的,他也会希望他的另一伴跟他一样有上进心。
 
  跟摩羯座交往的人常常会觉得,我到底是找一个人来爱我,还是找一个教练来训练我?这种硬梆梆的恋爱常常会让恋人感觉绑手绑脚,很想放空。虽然摩羯座的控制主要是思想上的引导跟掌握,但如果他们的恋人身边出现了其他竞争对手,他们会使出各种实质的优化方案,不管是带恋人出国,还是买昂贵的定情项链,会想用财力与时间来霸占恋人。他们会想,我对你好成这样难不成你还会逃出我手掌心吗?
 
  天蝎座
 
  天蝎座的人在追你的时候就开始控制了,但前提是你必须个性很独特又独立,创造出他想一步步吃掉你的吸引力,当他们认为你很难掌握时,那会激起他想征服的欲望,他们会渐渐的渗透你的生活,非常热情又贴心的处理你的大小事,他们会想要掌握恋人身边的每个人,还会去参加对方的社交活动,不管是朋友聚会、同学会、同事聚餐、家族旅游,他们通通想要参与跟融合,如果恋人不愿意,他们会很难过,会觉得不被爱,然后持续的想控制对方一举一动,直到对方就范。
 
  感情稳定之后情况才会有改变,会希望对方能在他需要的时候用爱包裹他。但是他们通常很讨厌被控制,只有他们能掌握伴侣,他们必须保有自己的秘密才会在感情裡感到自在。天蝎座如果被反控制的话,会很快速得失去爱的感觉,他需要对方给他很多隐私。完全掌控了在感情里的主控位。
 
  Love a person just want to own and control the 5 constellations of Ta?
 
  Libra
 
  A Libra has a nature of maintaining balance. If he starts to lack security in his feelings, this balance will become control. He will want to understand your thoughts and control you by agreeing with you and supporting you. He Will pay as much as possible, observe all the details you need, and then fill every opportunity you can pay, it will make people feel very stressful, because they just want to defend the possibility of other people invading, like to control the entire situation regardless of It's your heart or your life so they can feel safe.
 
  In addition, they also understand the fragile part of your heart at the same time. Suppose you are a person who cares about his outsiders and has a lot of peach blossoms. Because of this, he will please him more and care more about his needs. When unbalanced, he will deliberately go out to meet with friends, on the one hand to relieve his pressure, on the other hand, deliberately control you to return to the way he loves him more. It can be said that it is easy to talk about love, although it is easy , But actually implemented a lot of control yet.
 
  Pisces
 
  I mentioned that most people in Pisces have the impression that they are in a sweet and sticky relationship. Whether it is a gentle Pisces or a domineering Pisces, they seem harmless in love. It ’s very dedicated, just like a hairy stick, brush it back and forth several times every day on the lover. Although the shortcomings of the brush can be ignored, but sticking to you every day is to confirm that this love is free of impurities and You are still in his control.
 
  But if you have been dating for a long time, you will ask why you have so many shortcomings every day, do you not love him so you have not improved. Lovers often feel that they are very prone to problems, and tenderness is actually one of the means by which you can make you obedient. Because the lovers' past, present, and future all want to participate, Pisces will also hope that the lovers can accept all of them. This feeling of intertwined lives will make them have a true love. But for those who love freedom, such a relationship is full of control, giving people a sense of suffocation.
 
  Taurus
 
  Once the Taurus has identified the person to be associated with, they will want to take control of the relationship, because they will think that if they will be with you in the future, then I must have a comprehensive understanding. Therefore, they will also observe whether the other party can accept their insecure side before contacting, and then gradually ask the other party to provide more information. When the lovers express that they do not like being controlled, the Taurus temper will be revealed If they doubt you, and you can't explain it to a point that allows them to understand, they will be thorny in this matter, which is very difficult.
 
  At this time, it is very important for lovers to be considerate of their security. If you meet a hard-hearted lover, Taurus will suffer for a long time. Self-blame is your own problem, but at the same time, you ca n’t control yourself. Be aggressive and ask for more explanations. In fact, most of the time Taurus only wants to appease, because you are afraid of losing, so hold on, the hardest thing is Taurus itself.
 
  Capricorn
 
  In addition to being overbearing, Capricorns will control their packaging very subtly. They like to use the teaching method to guide each other's chess, because using the principles to regulate each other makes them feel more at ease, and they He will also hypnotize himself. This is for the sake of the other party, and requires the other party to be aggressive in the direction of life, because they succeed by discipline and willpower. He also hopes that his other partner is as motivated as him.
 
  人 People who interact with Capricorn often feel that I am looking for someone to love me, or a coach to train me? This kind of hard-hearted love often makes lovers feel tied hands and feet, very much want to let go. Although Capricorn's control is mainly ideological guidance and mastery, if other competitors appear next to their lover, they will make a variety of substantial optimization solutions, whether it is taking their lover abroad, or buying an expensive love necklace Will want to use financial resources and time to occupy lovers. They will think, will it be so hard for me to succeed, will you escape my palm?
 
  Scorpio
 
  Scorpio people start to control when they are chasing you, but the premise is that you must be unique and independent, and create the appeal that he wants to eat you step by step. When they think you have a hard time mastering it, it will stir you up. His desire to conquer, they will gradually infiltrate your life, very warm and considerate to deal with your affairs, they will want to master everyone around their lovers, and will also participate in each other's social activities, whether it is a friend party , Class reunion, colleagues dinner, family travel, they all want to participate in the integration, if the lovers are not willing, they will be sad, they will not be loved, and then continue to control each other's every move until the other party submits.
 
  情况 The situation will only change after the relationship is stable, and he hopes that the other person can wrap him with love when he needs it. But they often hate being controlled. Only when they can control their partner, they must keep their secrets to feel free in their relationships. If Scorpio is anti-controlled, he will quickly lose the feeling of love, and he needs the other party to give him a lot of privacy. Full control of the master position in the relationship.

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